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Intimacy & Surrender: A 3 day ritual of being together and apart


  • Pennans Cottage Rose mount, Newer Perranporth, Cornwal TR4 9PP UK (map)

Rooted in the soil of what it means to be a man or a woman is a longing for safety and unity with our opposite sex. We are so heavy with conditioning by the time we reach adulthood, its a wonder we can ever understand each other.

Together we roll back our knowingness, make a bed of moss, explore each other and learn to meet and trust in new ways.

“I will remember this experience for the rest of my life. It has fundamentally changed my perception of the opposite sex”

This is a 3 day ritual with built in intimacy and emotional work, to add some shine to your soul and send you back home feeling connected to yourself and others. We will also incorporate time on the beach so you can get a good dose of nature connection. 

“I felt truly connected in a way that is usually difficult in a large group. With all the therapeutic work I have done, I have never felt so held”

The polarity ritual that forms the main part of this retreat will give you an embodied message that counters your archetypal wounding around the masculine/feminine so that you are left with a completely new perspective. Taking you beyond right and wrong to a field where you can truly see and be seen. It is not for YOU that you do it (though the side effects of it are often powerfully nourishing and insightful); it is for all men and women that have ever been misunderstood or unseen or unmet.

“This is the most safe I have ever felt in an intimacy workshop”


You will receive an unparalleled experience of being met by the opposite sex and the opportunity to shed layers of hurt around this.

Our focus is on creating a profoundly safe and honouring space. All work is done fully clothed and equally appropriate whether you are single or in a relationship.

£170 includes food and camping. Shared rooms £30/night. Private room £40/night.

Book with a £70 deposit on Eventbrite and you will be contacted to pay the rest via bank transfer

We will be hosted at the beautiful Pennans Cottage, which is a beautiful home on the wild and idyllic coast of Cornwall. The house has 5 bedrooms, a pool and lovely garden.

This event is led and hosted by Roma Norriss and Adam Wilder

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