Professional Sex & Intimacy Coaching Bend Oregon

Where Desire Meets Truth

You’ve questioned the beliefs you were raised with.
You’ve explored your patterns, read the books, gone to therapy, and invested in your growth.

This is the final frontier of personal development. It’s where the body, relationships, sexuality, power, spirituality, and identity all meet, and where many thoughtful people discover the deepest and most complicated questions waiting.

If you are navigating the intersection of desire and spirituality…
reconsidering relationship structures…
exploring kink or power dynamics with care and integrity…
or healing from abuse, shame, or religious trauma around the body and sexuality…

this is a space for honest exploration, grounded perspective, and thoughtful guidance.

Private counsel with Kristin Warnaca, Erotic Integration Guide

- virtual private counsel, mentoring & guidance worldwide

If you’re sitting with questions about desire, intimacy, or the direction of your relational life, this is a space for honest exploration, grounded insight, and compassionate guidance. You’re welcome to begin with a single conversation.

BOOK YOUR FIRST SESSION

First Session

new client session

A full working session: 90 minutes to two hours. This first session is an opportunity o bring what is real in your life into the room. We explore the questions, tensions, desires or transitions you are navigating. I offer clear reflection, somatic awareness practices, and perspectives and tools drawn from years of guiding people through intimacy, power, shadow and spiritual integration.

$333

Pay at booking · No refunds

BOOK YOUR FIRST SESSION

Zoom by default

Returning clients may meet in-person when available (Bend, Oregon)

No reoccurring commitment or cadence required.

Embracing Your Eros

Discovering vibrance, passion, magic, and abundance through embodied sensuality

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"Kristin's approach is a refreshing change. She has an amazing ability to connect at a deep level, uncover core wounds, and facilitate a healing journey. Kristin is an amazing resource for anyone seeking healing, coaching, and guidance through life's most intimate moments. A truly important investment." - Eric Molletta

✨ Life changing. ✨Kristin is MAGICAL! In only three sessions she’s ignited my creativity, enhanced my self-love and self-acceptance, helped me understand my blocks (and transform them into helpful allies), and my romantic relationship has been reborn. I’ve done a lot of therapy and healing work over the years but hands-down this is the best experience I’ve ever had. She’s such a match for me, and I’m so grateful she’s here in Bend! - Dr. Brianne Grogan

Workshops & Groups

Why Coaching?

Release → Rewire → Reinhabit.

A Somatic, Nutritional, and Identity Remodel for Perimenopausal Women
Mondays, 6 - 7:30pm Pacific Time
April 6-27, 2026
Live Zoom Experience

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Witness • Reclaim • Liberate →Your Innate Divinity.

Purity Culture, Religious Deconstruction & Erotic Reconstruction

8 weeks, March - April 2026

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For the woman who no longer fragments herself to belong.

A 9-month Initiation of Power, Pleasure, Paradox and Play

fall 2026-summer 2027

Save My Spot

It’s a well known fact that, of all the things successful people do to accelerate their path to success, working with a professional coach is at the top of the list. In fact, private coaching is so impactful that major companies are now assigning personal coaches to high-performing executives and up-and-coming “stars” they’ve identified for future leadership positions. But coaching is not just for business people. Professional athletes, college students, retiring Baby Boomers—plus millions more people from all walks of life—are working with coaches to create the life they want.

As a coach, I bridge the gap from where you are to where you want to go, and help you come home to yourself. I am an empathetic safe space and also an uncompromising truth-teller, always standing for your highest good.

I can help you:

Discover, clarify, and align with the goals, vision, and dreams of what you want to achieve
Encourage your growth, self-discovery & healing journey
Confront your unconscious behaviors and old patterns
Address and unblock limiting beliefs & integrate intense experiences
Co-create specific solutions and strategies to help you achieve your goals
Help you sort through opportunities that arise from your forward momentum
Increase the options that are consciously available to you
Achieve the results that are most important to you

Let's See if we are a match! Zoom Discovery Call

Intimacy & Relationship Coaching

1. Wilder Intimacy^TM

Whole-Body Desire, Honest Connection, Integrated Pleasure

Wilder Intimacy is an embodied intimacy coaching approach for individuals and couples who want more depth, aliveness, and truth in their erotic and relational lives. This work focuses on nervous system regulation, desire literacy, attuned touch, consent, and communication, helping you understand how your body opens to connection, pleasure, and intimacy, and how to meet your partner without pressure or performance. Rather than fixing what’s “wrong,” Wilder Intimacy helps you integrate sensation, emotion, sexuality, and spirituality into a grounded, authentic experience of closeness. The result is intimacy that feels safer, more nourishing, more playful, and more real—on your terms.

2. Naked & Unashamed ^TM_{- Erotic and Spiritual Repair after Religious Shame}

Naked and Unashamed is a restorative journey for people undoing the sexual shame and disconnection left by high-control faith environments. It offers a slow, embodied path back to innocence, agency, and a self-defined sexual ethic grounded in presence and consent.

3. Devotional Kink: The Art of Spiritual D/s ^TM

Devotional Kink explores transcendent states, psychological intimacy, and voluntary, cooperative power exchange as a pathway to deeper connection and meaning. Rather than focusing primarily on physical sensation often the focus of BDSM techniques, this work centers the emotional, psychological, and relational dimensions of kink, where trust, intention, and presence become the primary sources of arousal and bonding. While not rooted in any specific religious tradition, the devotional context brings a sense of reverence, purpose, and sacred significance to D/s dynamics. Devotional Kink coaching supports individuals and couples in cultivating Sacred Union through shared values, clear consent, mutual devotion, and the conscious embracing and amplification of difference, allowing consensual power exchange to become a source of passion, peace, and fulfillment.

4. Green Flag Dating ^TM

You deserve Better. No more settling. Finding Love by Becoming Love.

Green Flag Dating helps you stop settling and start attracting relationships that are healthy, aligned, and nourishing. Through healing past patterns, clarifying what you truly want, and creating a dating profile that reflects your real presence and values, you learn to recognize green flags, set clear boundaries, and navigate modern dating with confidence, ease, and enjoyment.

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"WOW! the more pleasure I have in all aspects of life, the happier and more whole I feel. I listen to my body more. I can't believe I was missing out on this until now."
Erika

"Kristin's work expedites the healing process for limiting patterns to evolve without getting stuck in a 'talking-about-it-loop!' Kristin helps you reconnect your body, mind, and spirit and brings coherence to what has felt deeply confusing for so long. She elevated me out of repetitive narrative loops that many years of traditional talk therapy could not break."
Jacob

Trauma-Informed Mindset Coaching & Hypnotherapy

End Struggle Now & Experience Peak Performance

We all experience both 'big T' and 'little t' traumas, and need help resetting our nervous system & subconscious wiring. I bring 15 years of certified Hypnotherapy and deep mastery of Accelerated Evolution's verbally-guided transformative processes to this work (imagine a blend of EMDR, hypnosis, somatic art therapy, and somatic stress release techniques; this work is gentle & effective & unlike anything you've experienced before).

Dissolve inner conflict, emotional knots & stored trauma, to allow natural peace of mind, flow, and emotional freedom:

People deconstructing from religious trauma (I specialize in helping survivors from the 2x2 cult but work with people from all religious & high-control backgrounds)
First responders: military, police, veterans & wildland firefighters (so you can get back in your Nomex again)
High-performers achieving next-level goals with ease
Survivors of assault, abuse, or healing from the emotional impact of a car accident, stroke, traumatic brain injury or other challenge
Rediscovering a new identity & creating a new story

MINDSET REWIRING & HYPNOSIS: LEARN MOre

“Kristin's work elevated me out of repetitive narrative loops that many years of traditional talk therapy could not break. She is an intuitive guide and bridge to love that leads you back to yourself for inner healing so it is possible to hold more joy.

She creates a safe container to identify self-limiting behaviors, then offers many tools from a vast array of modalities, including deep guided hypnosis meditation and playful storytelling with shibari rope to discover and unwind unconscious attachment patterns.

Her work expedites the healing process for limiting patterns to evolve without getting stuck in a talking-about-it-loop! The result of working with Kristin is a sense of lightness with a new awareness so we can show up better for ourselves and our partners.”— Jacob Holt

Life Coaching, Navigation & Balance

Less stress, refined clarity, defined strategy, & deeper fulfillment.

Oola means living life joyful, wholehearted, and ready to take advantage whenever good times and opportunity appear.

The Oola Life Coaching program is also the proven framework for getting back on track, and finding balance in the 7 key areas of life.

The Oola framework helps people get healthy, eliminate debt, build wealth, move into their dream career, have more fun, create a better circle of friends, resolve lifelong family conflict, find their ultimate life purpose . . . and so much more.

"When I started working with Kristin, I was working two jobs: full-time 9-5, then driving Uber 4 nights/week. I was exhausted, overworked, and living day-to-day. Through the OOLA program and with her accountability & encouragement. my self-worth soared. I was recruited for a much higher-paying job with more vacation time, I went on an international trip for the first time ever! I had NO IDEA how much my life would change from working with Kristin, and I'm forever grateful."
Tammi

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